Have you ever caught yourself thinking, "I love my children, but when it comes to my future care, they'll probably end up in a battle royale"? You're not alone. As a Minnesota elder lawyer, I've seen countless families grapple with this exact concern. It's the elephant in the room that many of us dread addressing: what happens when our adult children can't see eye to eye on our care decisions?Picture this: You're in the hospital, unable to communicate your wishes. Suddenly, your hospital room becomes a war zone. One child insists on aggressive treatment, another advocates for comfort care, and…